Your guide to authentic love

Hi, I'm Christel

After more than 20 years of experience in education and childcare, during which I guided thousands of people (mainly women) in their personal and professional development, I decided to fully focus on what gives me the most energy: helping women find true love. When guiding these women in a professional setting and in my private environment, I kept seeing the same pattern: intelligent, independent and self-sufficient women who repeatedly attracted the wrong men. Men who were emotionally unavailable, who couldn't commit, or who didn't give them the love they needed and were looking for. That's why I founded LIV Development & Coaching. To help you break with this pattern and finally find the love that is truly mutual. Because you deserve nothing less than that.

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Christel Schollen

LIV Development & Coaching

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My own experience in love

"Others often describe me as a driven, helpful person with the right communication skills and an investigative attitude."

For years I repeated a pattern myself: I was a strong, independent, self-sufficient woman and 'I could manage on my own', but in relationships I attracted men who were emotionally unavailable. Deep inside I longed for connection. Yet I kept attracting men who couldn't or wouldn't give me what I needed.

Only when I started looking at my own patterns and the beliefs I had about love, could I break this pattern step by step. I learned to make room for a partner who was available without losing myself. I know what it's like to go through life alone (50 years) and also how it feels to have an equal relationship with someone where I can be completely myself.

Now I help women like you to do the same. Not through tricks or superficial dating tips, but by transforming from deep within what holds you back, so you can open yourself up to the love you deserve.

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My approach

I help women who are ready to choose awareness, self-love and a healthy, mature relationship. I use various NLP techniques and concrete strategies and exercises that you can apply directly in your daily life and dating life. My holistic approach ensures that you not only understand why you do things or don't do them, but also how you can approach them differently so that you get the love you deserve. I focus on an optimal balance between all aspects of your life, both physical, mental and emotional, combined with a down-to-earth spiritual touch that leads to positive, profound and sustainable change/transformation.

"Others often describe me as a driven, helpful person with the right communication skills and an investigative attitude."

Why women trust me

My unique combination of professional expertise and personal experience

Relationship Coach

2019-2020

Specialized in guiding singles and couples to healthy, equal relationships.

Online Coach

2020-2021

Expert in digital coaching methods for optimal remote guidance.

NLP Practitioner

2025

Use of powerful NLP techniques to break through limiting beliefs about love and old (non-working) patterns.

Reiki 2 Practitioner

2024

Holistic healing and energy balance for inner peace and self-love.

Author & Developer

2015-present

Developer of coaching programs and author of various educational methods.

Systemic coaching

2025

Insight into relational dynamics and family patterns that influence you.

"I believe in lifelong learning. That's why I continuously invest in new knowledge and techniques to provide you with the best guidance on your journey to the love you deserve."

What we stand for

Our three core values – L.I.V.

Love

Love is at the heart of everything – for yourself and for the relationship that is truly mutual.

Integrity

Honest and sincere. We say what we mean and stand for what we promise.

Vitality

Living with full vitality – with energy and openness for yourself and for the love you deserve.

My personal journey

From own experience to your transformation

My own experience with emotionally unavailable men has taught me what it really takes to break this pattern. I understand the pain, frustration and despair you feel when you repeatedly attract the same type of men.

Through my own healing, I learned how to help others transform their love life.

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My holistic approach

I combine different proven methods for optimal results

Cognitive approach

NLP and coaching techniques to identify and transform limiting beliefs about love.

Emotional healing

Work on self-love and healing old wounds that hold you back from true love.

Practical tools

Concrete strategies and exercises that you can apply directly in your daily life and dating life.

Certifications & Qualifications

Trust in proven expertise and continuous professional development

HBO Relationship Coach (Civas, 2019-2020)
HBO Online Coaching (Civas, 2020-2021)
NLP Practitioner (UNLP, 2025)
Life Coach (NHA, 2009-2010)
Reiki 2 Practitioner (2025)
Teacher/Trainer Pedagogy (Fontys, 2004-2007)
Systemic Coaching (Zonnevlecht, 2026)

"I believe in lifelong learning. That's why I continuously invest in new knowledge and techniques to provide you with the best guidance on your journey to the love you deserve."

Ready to work together?

Let's get to know each other and see how I can help you on your way to the love you deserve

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20+ years experience